For women who are done pretending they’re fine.
You hold everything together for everyone else - but inside you feel exhausted, guilty, and stuck in the same painful patterns.
You don’t have to carry it alone.
I help women make sense of their story, heal what still hurts, and come back to themselves using deep life coaching and the Enneagram.
Sessions online or in London · In English & Spanish
Is This You?
You’ve done everything you were “supposed” to do - work, family, responsibility, being the strong one. And yet something inside still hurts.
You might recognise yourself in some of these:
You feel guilty almost all the time - as a mother, partner, daughter, friend.
You’ve been through emotional or psychological abuse, and part of you still wonders if it was “that bad”.
You’re exhausted from always being the one who holds it all together and never really asking for help.
You notice repeating patterns in relationships, work or family and don’t understand why you keep ending up in the same place.
You look “fine” from the outside, but inside you feel numb, angry, anxious or lost.
You’re starting to realise that surviving is not enough. You want to feel truly alive, not just functioning.
If you’re nodding along, you’re not broken and you’re not alone. There is nothing “wrong” with you - there is a story that needs to be heard and honoured.
What we can work on together
In our sessions, we gently untangle what has happened to you, how it lives in your body and mind today, and what you need to feel more free in your life.
Together we can:
Release layers of guilt, shame and self-blame that are not truly yours.
Understand your patterns and defence mechanisms through the Enneagram, so you stop fighting yourself.
Learn to set boundaries without drowning in fear or regret.
Reconnect with your own needs, desires and truth – beyond roles and expectations.
Create simple, realistic steps towards a life that actually feels like yours.
Sometimes we can also use tools like the Enneagram (personality typing) to bring gentle clarity to your patterns – but the focus is always on you, not on any system.
This is not about fixing you. It’s about walking with you as you remember who you are underneath everything you’ve had to survive.
Ways to work with me
About Woman’s Truth
I’m Alejandra, a transformational life coach, Enneagram practitioner and a woman who has had to rebuild her life more than once.
I’ve walked through emotional abuse, separation, motherhood, migration, loss and starting over in a country that wasn’t mine. I know how it feels to be the strong one and still feel completely alone inside.
Woman’s Truth was born from a promise I made to myself: no more hiding, no more minimising my story, no more pretending I’m fine when I’m not.
I believe healing happens in relationship. Having one grounded, non-judgemental human with you can change how you see your whole story. That’s the space I offer in Woman’s Truth - honest, trauma-aware coaching for women who are ready to stop surviving and start living as themselves.
What clients say about me…
I’m deeply honoured by the women who have trusted me with their stories. Here are some of their words, shared with permission:
You don’t have to carry it alone
If something in you is whispering “this is for me”, you don’t have to have everything figured out before reaching out.
Let’s start with a simple conversation and see what you need.
or send me a message and tell me what’s going on for you.